Capability, Positive Motivation, Easy-Strong Affair
I have often told you that:’’You can do it; not strong! Not a big deal! Go ahead!...’’
Because of i know that we have a personality in nature is very strong, resistable, no-giving-up as being woman.
And sometimes, I also say that to support you motivate to have the good and elegant specialities.
And i will keep saying that, of course! I know the positive motivation will make you get power and self-confidence…
When you know the people except you also believe in you can do… you absolutely do!
YOU CAN DO!
But…
But today, I will add somethings to my usual saying…
Today, ‘’It’s easy, not difficult, care attention a bit then you do it…’’ is not what i’ll say!
Please, tell me girls: ‘’Why would you underrate your capability and strength!!!???
Once you have used to live some wrongs as considering rights.
Now you have been changing them objectively to good for you, rights for you.
You’ve cared for the family, children, job, mortgage, relations…
So, you’ve forgotten to love your own, to care of your own.
Now, you have a very important and hard to do decision which is to take back what you’ve missed.
You need to work hard and to try not to give up!
In life, there is no succes which is got not to try indeed.
But… And…
You can do that.
Because the things are beautiful and valuable are got hard.
And to get the hard one is the point and enjoyable!
In this article, i will tell you a new method to learn fast while improving yourself:
‘‘Obligate Yourself and Force Yourself’’… means that you take the strong way instead of you choose a shortcut.
(Even you have a chance to have a shortcut, you’ll take the hard one.)
At my first article*, i have told you to write your obligations and then determine the things you think which are obligations but not in fact. Then change them.
(*see ‘’Improve Yourself To Change Your Life’’)
Today, i am telling you to have obligations.
Don’t leave any exit for yourself, except to learn and to develope.
Be volunteer for the positions which you will get ashamed if you can’t be succeed.
Then, eliminate the possibility of getting ashamed off your position.
Naturally you can do that as disciplining yourself and bounding yourself by the time and subject goals a.s.a.p..
For Example:
Example 1.
Your Time is 3 months.
Your Subject is NOT ‘’to learn Italian’’. Bound it:
Your subject is ‘’to learn Italian for hosting your banker Italian guests at the office’’.
See!
You have already bounded your subjects you have to learn.
You have to learn a smaller part, now. ;)
Example 2.
Your husband’s Austrian partner will visit you.
Getting a friendly contact to him and his wife would be good for your husband’s career.
The German language you will learn doesn’t need professionality or complicated.
It will contain a friendly supper chat!
Example 3.
Or the meal you’ll learn to cook will not be the ‘’Fusion Delies at the world cuisines’’.
It is the fusion with your native cuisine and the German cuisine mixture’’.
The cuisines you’ll study are two, now. You can do that easy.
So, you have also been entering to the world fusion delies by the simple way.
Have fun!
Example 4.
Your subject is NOT the ‘’cinema’’, but the ‘’Roman Polanski Movies’’. Your learning time is ... days.
Example 5.
Your subject is NOT the post modern perceptions at the architecture.
You don’t need to search the architectural literature by the archives with hundreds examples…
Your subject is ‘’the post modern traces at the holiday houses of 1980-1990.
We have made narrower your researching area.
Now, you can give your attention and see a few archived architecture magazines in photos and read a few articles…
A very genuine example
Your subject is not to loose 15 pounds you have… But to loose 5 pounds in three months!
You are minimizing your effort and stress by 1 in a 3.
And your rate to become succesful goes up 3 times. ;)
Do you want to learn a language? Volunteer to host your office guests from abroad.
In advance study the words and the sentences you will need while taking them to somewhere and chatting about your job, the meals and a few monumental places in your city, i recommend. Then enjoy!
Do you visit an other country? Be friend with the natives.
When it is asked ‘’who can do that?’’… Say ‘’I do that good’’.
And be good as bounding your area.
Obligate yourself and force yourself to do what you want to learn.
This method which i often apply for, is good to learn fast.
A huge goal may frighten; even may seems impossible.
When you part your process, your things to do will be easier and you can also add your goal make a part of your life, fluently.Each one of steps, each one of parts you’ve completed makes you closer to your target.
Over all, you do all happy!
I have discovered that way, when i was a student.
Almost all the deals have started by this way, which i’ve suceed.
I still keep to apply this way.
So i also wanted to share my experienced method with you.
To obligate yourself and force yourself is one of the the most tentful and the most exciting learning ways.
Beside, it will be a start of the big steps will take you ahead.
- Describe your aim.
- See your way in your mind.
- Make it parts.
- And obligate yourself to complete each one of your parts.
At your beginner experiences, take a less risky subjects.
(Like diet, hosting dinner guests… not the job.)
In time, when you observe your succes on your own, how you can be succeed, you can spread this method at whole in your life to obligate and force yourself while learning, absolutely learning.
Now, I can say once more…
Actually, it is a very easy way in learning; obligate yourself…and also very exciting!
Save the enthusiasm and excitement inside of you. I wish you have the joyous days…
ilhan Hande