The winter has just passed and we started to get warm again… I wish God save all needed creatures, help them to warm, eat, refuge and give kindness and merciness to the powerful people… That was also my wish for the last winter. It would be selfish to expect the personal benefits not try for. First, let’s work hard and then, let’s expect to have benefit.
What about you?
How have you done in the winter? Have you ever taken benefits to read my blog? Have you kept to improve yourself? And during your evolution, have you met to the people who you’d like to add them to your surrounding? Is the answer, yes? I’m glad for you :)
What about me? I have worked at the time spend since my last article. Read, write, auditions, rehearsals…
What have we said at last? Let’s care our look, now. Our look is also very important as we have inside of us as. Both our look and the mind reflect of eachother’s…
(see. My first article:’’İmprove Yourself To Change Your Life’’)
To shape your look in the elegant style, i’d rather to start from your hand bag.
You already know that you can scheduled your body-workout and the other routine by your programming notebook, from my first article of my blog.
But your hand bag can’t be ignored!
Which Bag with Which Wear
As i’ve seen my dear ladies, you are not clear to choose your bags and you sometimes fail, fluently. :)
A few conditions are effective to choose the bag:
How is the climate and which season is it?
The Hour, The Time of the day
The Place - Where are you going?
The reason - What’s your purpose to do where you go?
Additionally, the personal reasons, particularly your’s
And the biggest point :The pieces should be inside of the elegant woman bag
What does a woman needs in her bag?
The Season…
The elder generations have choosen their bag colours depending on the season.
They’d taken the dark and cold colours in the winter. And the light and hot colours in the spring and summer. Nowadays, this is not a rule.
Now, an ivory or orange coloured boots with the same coloured coat can be weared in the winter.
(Red, yellow, orange, brown and their shades are the hot colours)
But, even nowadays, unless you completely weared a dark look in the summer day; the dark coloured bags aren’t choosen except the made of knitting and fabric materials.
Let’s focus on the time, the place and the reason, together. They’re related.
The DAY;
Going to the Work What you put in your bag changes what your job is.
If, all your needs are in your office… So, you need the standart pieces in your bag.
Middle size bag which you liked and fit your wear is good for you. (I’ll explain the colour harmony to choose the bag, later.)
If you need to carry the lesson notes, papers, tablets/notebook with you… Of course, you need a file bag to carry your things not to wrinkle, enough size for the tablet/notebook to place inside and beside the standart pieces of your bag should be the bigger size and wider hang not to hurt your shoulder.
If you are the mother of your baby… You should carry the baby needs, so take the fashionable very big size bags.
If you are going to shop or take a coffe with the friends… It’s fine for you, an average size daily bag.
You are invited for the dinner, coctail, a meeting or a party at night You can take a small and chick night bag which have a place the standart pieces of the elegant woman with you.
The unofficial and genuine meetings, visits… At the genuine dinners with the friends or family visits, you can use your daily bag.
In the fitness center, the dance class… (social dances, modern dance…) e.t.c. If you are going to the gym or dance class, of course you need a big size bag to place your shoes, costumes, gym-wear…
These kind of the large size bags are purposed, so they may be unique in your wardrobe.
What colour may be the sport bag or back-pack?
Because of these kind of purposed bags are usually the unique, consider that you may wear vary coloured coats, jackets with them. So, these kind of specific bags and packs may be; either nude, light grey, light brown coloured can’t be noticed and fits almost all the colours or the opposite; very lively, hot, bright coloured, designee which are very different than you wear all on.
The night bags are usually chosen small...
Because we don’t like our bag steal the role of our dress. We don’t like our bag to cover our attitude and chich looking.
Beside, the pieces we need at night are smaller than the pieces we need at the day.
What you have in your bag…?
Right now, do your bag inside out. What do drop on the couch?
:)
Actually, the pieces you should carry are known...
***Inside Of The Elegant Woman Bag…***
Yeaaa! This is the point!
Unfortunately, the ladies may not carry the pieces life or death!
So, when they face to the unexpectable and unlucky positions, it’s proved how they are far from the elegancy.
The Day and Night, What You Should Carry in Your Bag?
THE DAY :
The keys, car papers, wallet, mobile, -i say, ‘’if you need’’ but i usually keep- a pen and a small notebook, small deodorant (roll-on or powdered… The sprays injures the Ozon.), a small parfume, small comb, grace mirror, if you need make-up powder, lip-stick. (At the daily make-up, to look simple and natural is primarily.) Your private cosmetics. Aaaan, the most important pieces;
The tissues, handkerchief (fabric), bag-type toothpaste and toothbrush.
You can never go out without the handkerchief!
From now on… When you sneeze, in a place smells bad to cover your nose, when the bird leaves a present on your shouder, your children sneeze or stain the shirt, you eat bagel or ice-cream, and drop sauce etc… IF… If you sweep your face by your arm or skirt by hand or ask by shouting as ‘’Can i have some tissueeees!’’ :) Please, you can’t come back my blog...
The elegancy can’t allow this sort of failure!
THE NIGHT :
In your night bag, naturally you have less things.
If you have a cavalier :) you'll not need to keep the key, car papers, how lucky for you...! But the tissue or a handkerchief (fabric)(prefarably, dark coloured and silk), lip-stick, powder, credit card or a little cash, maybe the spare socks, mobile...
P.S. :
An elegant woman can never go out without a hankerchief and never keep the gum in her bag, instead of the toothbrush.
As you remember my past articles; you can’t walk or talk as chewing gum and smoking. (see. The Nice Attitude, Walk, Posture)
You can keep the candy, chocolate, cracker, biscuits, fruits, sandwich… but never have a gum!
Yep! That’s all. :)
In my opinion, the woman and the man can’t be equal of eachother.
The responsibilities of both of the genders are different than eachother.
To be a woman needs to care.
To be an elegant woman needs to care herself with pleasure and needs to feel lack when some of the parts can’t be completed or picked up.
The woman gets more and more beauty as care herself and surrounding as; gets beauty as notice the detailes as.
You can know a woman is in privacy, as seeing what she keeps in her bag.
You are insufficient as the pieces you don’t have in your bag; and, you are elegant as the pieces you need in your bag.
An elegant bag is not too expensive. It is full of the ordinary needs to erase of the ordinariness traces; so does it makes bright ''elegant’’.
Enjoy, day and night…
ilhan Hande
